After going out with my girlfriend for 4 years, she says she's not ready to move in with me. Should I be concerned or give her more time?
I really love her and am willing to do what she wants – to a point. I asked her why she wouldn’t move in but she didn’t give me a straight answer.
In all honesty from a woman’s point of view, she has no intent on settling down with you. She is with you because she either has no other prospects or more then likely it is safe and comfortable. because you have been together so long, she is reluctant to “go back out there.” If she did want to make a lifetime committment to you, you wouldn’t be asking the question and seeking answers- there would be no question, there would be no reluctance on her part.
with all honestly get rid of her she’s playing you for a fool and she probably don’t even love you. if i were you be careful she might be seeing someone on the side so watch her characteristics real close that’s why she won’t give you a straight anwser.